Tuesday, September 30, 2014

Review: Randy Susan Meyers' Accidents of Marriage

The story of a family on the edge... and how they got there.
For Madeline Illica, the love of her husband Ben is her blessing and curse. Brilliant and charming when he chose to be, Ben turns into a raging bull when crossed—and despite her training as a social worker Maddy is never sure what will cross him. She kept a fragile peace by vacillating between tiptoeing around him and asserting herself for the sake of their three children until a rainy drive to work when Ben’s temper gets the best of him and the consequences leave Maddy in the hospital, fighting for her life.
Exploring emotional abuse, traumatic injury, and children lost in the shuffle of recovery with unblinking honesty, Accidents of Marriage is an account of life inside of a marriage and how the unexpected gift of clarity can make the difference between living in hell and salvation.


Accidents of Marriage

By
Randy Susan Meyers







CHAPTE R  1



Maddy






Maddy ran her tongue over her teeth, imagining the bitter taste of a crumbling tablet of Xanax. After a gut-wrenching day at the hospital nothing tempted her more than a chemical vacation. Nothing appealed to her less than cooking supper. Churning stomach acid—courtesy of workcoupled with anxiety that Ben might come home as frenzied as he’d left made a formidable appetite killer.
She could bottle it and make a fortune.

Each morning she spun the wheel on the Ben chart, hoping the arrow would hit happy husband, or at least neutral guy. Today his arrow landed on total bastard, holding her personally responsible for Calebs tantrum, which—oh, horror!—had cost Ben twenty minutes of work.
She considered taking a pill, but the rites of family happiness demanded her attention. Gracie and Caleb sprawled on the rug, recovering from their day at camp: seven-year-old Caleb, half asleep, rubbing his cheek with his thumb; nine-year-old Gracies glazed eyes fixed on the television. Emma, her oldest, a day camp counselor at


fourteen, would be home soon.

Sluggish inertia kept Maddy stapled to the couch despite her long list of waiting tasks. Chop vegetables, pay the mortgage, and catch up on laundry before the kids ran out of socks. Find a stamp somewhere in the mess she called her desk so she could mail the electric bill. Give her children feelings of self-worth. Plus, since she and Ben had fought that morning, hed need soothing. Fellatio came to mind.
Indestructible fabric, the sort bought by parents with children prone to transferring their sticky snacks to the upholstery, prickled against her bare arms. She lusted for air- conditioning as shed once longed for peace, justice, and her husband. Each suffocating Boston summer their badly wired Victorian became more hateful and Bens warnings about global warming swayed her less. According to Ben, her environmental ethics
turned situational with each drop of perspiration.

Pressing the small of her back didnt ease the permanent knot lodged deep and low, nor did shoving a small hard pillow against it. Her stomach growled despite her lack of desire for food.
Fish sticks would be easy, but she couldn’t bear turning on the oven.

The back door slammed. Emma banged her backpack on the table. Her daughters way of saying Im home.
Emma?What?
Maddy struggled up from the couch and headed toward the kitchen. Just making sure its you.
Were you expecting someone else? she asked.


It could have been Daddy.

Right. What an all-purpose word right had become in their family, their polite way of saying, I am acknowledging you have spoken, but am choosing not to engage in any meaningful way. Lately, they used it all too often.
Newspapers theyd tried to read at breakfast covered half the table. Emma stared into the refrigerator as Maddy gathered the papers, unsure whether to recycle them. Had Ben finished reading the Boston Globe? The New York Times?
There’s nothing to eat, Emma said.In Caros house—”

The sound of breaking glass followed by Calebs scream interrupted before

Emma could specify just how superior a shopper Caros mother was.

Mom! Gracie yelled. Come here!

Emma followed as Maddy ran to the living room.

Jesus, what happened? Maddy crouched next to Caleb, her stomach dropping at the sight of blood pouring from his foot. Shards of glass surrounded him, liquid droplets of milk clinging to the pieces, a larger white puddle pooling on the wooden floor. She grabbed a wadded-up napkin to staunch the blood, crouching awkwardly to avoid cutting her knees.
Gracies mouth trembled. I just got up, thats all, and I knocked over his milk glass. He got mad and screamed, then he stood up and kicked the glass and it broke. He stepped on it. It wasn’t my fault!”
It’s okay, Gracie.” Blood soaked through the napkin, dissolving the paper as she exerted pressure. Emma, get me a damp towel.
This was preventable, Ben would say. This is why we have plastic glasses.


Make it stop, Mommy! Tears cut through the dirt on Calebs cheeks.

She pressed harder. Gracie mopped the spilled milk with a dirty T-shirt from her backpack.
Here.” Emma held out a dripping kitchen towel.

You need to wring it out, Emma. Never mind, just get a clean one.

Emma stomped out with Gracie in her wake. Wet cloth slapped in the sink.

Give this to Mom.” Emma’s voice from the kitchen was extra loud.

Using the hem of her black cotton skirt, Maddy covered the napkin. Gracie returned with a new towel. Emma watched from the doorway, twirling the bottom of her long brown braid.
Maddy peeled away her skirt and replaced it with the towel, Caleb whimpering. Do I have to go to the doctor? He squinted as peeked under the towel. It doesn’t look too deep, but it has to be cleaned, she said. I dont think we need a doctor. Maddys pulse calmed. She stopped rushing ahead in her mind: wrapping Calebs foot safely enough to hold in the bleeding until they got to the emergency room, packing the kids in the car, calling Ben. She looked again—making sure her decision was based on wisdom and not wishful thinking. It wasn’t gaping. The bleeding had slowed.
He tried to pull his foot away. No! No cleaning. Itll hurt.

Emma squatted next to them. You let Mom wash out the cut and Ill play

Monopoly.” Calebs smile came through like a sun shower.

Thats sweet, honey.” Maddy should appreciate Emma’s goodness and stop losing patience with her sulks and eye rolling. Thank you.
Can I play? Gracie asked.


No,” said Caleb. Just me and Emma.”

Gracie’s lip quivered at her brother’s words, leaving Maddy torn between soothing and yelling Stop it, especially when she saw Gracie make the tiny sign of the cross she’d picked up from Grandma Frances, Bens mother, a woman given to reflexive ritual blessings. Gracies gesture unsettled Maddy. Next thing she knew, her daughter would be genuflecting at Our Lady of the Virgins. Buying her a Jewish star or a Unitarian flaming chalice, before Grandma Frances hung a crucifix over Gracies bed, went on her to-do list. Mixed marriage only went so far.
Monopoly is better with more people, Caleb.Pregnant women should be required to take classes in referee and negotiation skills along with breathing and panting lessons.
No. I only want to play with Emma.”

Gracie pulled at her camp-grimy toes. How about you and I make chocolate sauce while they play? Maddy suggested. We could have hot fudge sundaes for supper.
Ice cream for supper? Gracie raised her chin off her knees.

Why not? She pushed back her daughters sweaty black curls, the only visible part of Maddy that Gracie had inherited. The kids divided their parents’ parts and shared few: Skinny Caleb had Bens thick brown hair, Maddys long lashes and narrow shoulders. Poor Gracie, like Ben, would have to fight a tendency toward getting thick in the middle. Emma, wiry like Maddy, had her fathers sharp cheekbones.
Emma rolled her eyes.Healthy, Mom.Shut up, Emma,” Caleb said.


You shut up. Or I wont play with you.Ill play,” Gracie said.
No. Emma picked me. Wash my cut, Mommy.

***

A child leaned on either shoulder. With feet propped on the coffee table, Maddy drifted in and out of sleep. Dirty bowls decorated with blobs of hardened fudge littered the room. After cresting to a quick high of giggles over supper, they’d slumped into queasy sugar comas.
They stirred at the sound effects of Bens nightly return: The car rolling on gravel. Scrape of heat-swollen door opening. Keys dropping on the hall table. Briefcase thudding to the floor. Sighs of relief or disgust indicated his mood level. Despite their early- morning fight, Ben sounded audibly benign. Thank God. Maybe it would be a Swiss
night, with the living room their first neutral zone.

Ben entered the living room and surveyed their collapsed bodies and the scattered Monopoly pieces. Gracie pulled away and ran to him, throwing her hands around his waist. He stroked her black ringlets into a little bundle at the back of her head as she leaned into his slightly softening middle. He had the body of a forty-three-year-old man who fought gravity by playing handball twice a week, but whod given up crunches. Not bad, but unlike Maddy, who ran and used free weights and the rowing machine in their basement, his battle against time brought fewer visible rewards.
What happened? he asked. It looks like a war zone.”

We had some excitement. Our boy cut himself.” Caleb held out his bandage- swathed foot while still staring at the television.


You okay? Ben asked. He gave Gracie one last pat and went to the couch. Hurt much?
Caleb shrugged. I guess. A little.” He studied Maddy as though seeking the right answer.
Ben laid a hand on Caleb’s calf. Can you walk on it?Sorta. I hop on my heel on that side.”
It’s on the ball of his foot. The inside,” Maddy said.

How’d it happen? Ben tugged on his chin—his poker tell that steam could build at any moment.
Maddy leaned over Caleb and kissed her husband, hitting the side of his mouth he offered. Forgetting anything? she asked. Hello, Maddy? How are you?
He exhaled. Dont start. Ive had a rough day.

Kissing was starting? It is when youre being sarcastic, she answered herself,

using Bens lecture voice. He fell asleep and then got up without remembering there was a milk glass next to him. It was an accident. She knew the lie was barely plausible, but she also knew it was just enough for him to avoid being prosecutorial.
Where was he sleeping? The recycle bin?

Very funny. A glass broke. End of story. There. The truth snuck in.

Why cant the kids eat and drink at the table like theyre supposed to? Why werent they using plastic glasses? He ran his hands through his hair. Look at this place. Its a mess. No wonder everyone’s always having accidents.
Caleb rubbed his thumb back and forth across his knee. Gracie crossed herself.

Not now, okay? Please. She sent him a significant look.


Ben flexed his shoulders, leaned back on the couch, and stared at the ceiling. He took a deep breath, seeming to remember the anger management sheet Maddy had forced on him six months ago, after he’d thrown a shoe. At the wall, he insisted each time she mentioned the incident. Not at you. But her message had landed. For once, shed broken through his endless rejections of her careful observations about his temper.
Good thing. She’d gritted her teeth through his rages, but shed be damned if their house became a physical battleground. He’d scared himself when he’d thrown the shoe— just as he had years before when he’d thrown a bottle of detergent against the wall. The difference was this time he’d listened to her. He’d read the sheet despite hating it when she supposedly social-worked him. Save it for your clients, he’d yell when she deconstructed him. The children. Their marriage. Youre not my shrink, youre my wife.
If he didn’t want her to social-work him, then she sure wished he’d learn to manage his own moods. Maddys sister insisted that one day it would be too late for anger prevention sheets and other tricks. Vanessa had no patience for Ben’s rages, but
Maddy blamed herself for the antagonism her family felt toward Ben. Maddy overshared. Everything negative, anyway. When had she last called her sister to say things were
going great? To brag about Ben taking an entire day to make sure Gracie could ride her bike safely? How often did she mention that Ben took the kids to the movies while she went for a massage?
At least her mother pretended to love Ben. For which Maddy was grateful.

We had ice cream for supper,” Caleb announced. Emma’s shoulders squared. Gracie pressed into Maddy. Ben turned to Caleb. Ice cream?


With hot fudge, Caleb added.

Nice to be rewarded for breaking a glass, huh? Ben kicked off his shoes. Since

I havent fallen or broken anything, what do I get for supper?

Emma jumped up. Should I make you eggs, Dad?

Thank you, honey. That would be terrific. He leaned back and closed his eyes, pushing off his shoes with his toes.
Gracie tapped his forehead. He blinked and gave her a tired smile. What is it, cupcake?
Want me to cut up carrots for you?

Maddy grabbed the laundry basket from where shed dropped it in the corner of the living room and hurried out before she had to witness the girls wait on Ben. It drove her crazy watching them being trained in the fine art of placating an angry man, but try explaining that one. What, a child couldn’t feed a hungry father?
After throwing in a white wash and rummaging through the crowded shelves for fabric softener, she dragged over a small dusty step stool and climbed up, stretching to reach behind the jumble of cleaning supplies. She pulled out a dusty baggie that held a few tablets, took out a yellow one, bit off half, and swallowed it dry. Sometimes she wondered if she could remember all of her caches. Keeping them scattered around the house gave her a convoluted sense of peace and safety. She might reach for one pill in a week; she might reach in every day. Either way, knowing that they were never more than a few steps away comforted her.
***

Back in the kitchen, remnants of Bens eggs and carrots littered the countertop.


She cleared the debris to one side to make sandwiches for the kids lunch boxes. Trying to spread cold peanut butter made her hate Bens mother. Frances had spent the past forty-six years appeasing Bens fathers neuroses by keeping a spotless house and refrigerating peanut butter, on constant guard against food poisoning, bacteria, and dust.
Because of Frances, they ate hard peanut butter.

The bread tore. She folded it around the wad of Skippy and shoved it in her mouth. Then she got a fresh slice and began making the sandwiches again: grape jelly for Caleb, blueberry for Gracie, and for Emma, Maddys mothers homemade orange preserves.
Anger exhausted her. She waited for the kiss of Xanax to kick in, Prince

Charming bearing a sheath for her nerves.

Ben hadn’t cared if they ate hot mayonnaise and slept on typhus-encrusted sheets when theyd met, not while they burned off the searing heat of their early years. Hed been exciting, her Ben, a public defense lawyer demanding the world give his wrecked clients a break—a little justice, a fair shot. She could barely breathe around him, some part of her always needing to touch some part of him. Her hand on his shoulder. An ankle casually leaning against his calf.
Ben dwarfed everyone, racing through life with exclamation points coming out all sides. Poverty to the right? Boom! Racism? Pow. Dirty landlords? Gotcha!
Who knew all that passion and rage could be directed at a late car payment? A

missing button.


Her.

About Randy

Randy and JillI was born in Brooklyn, New York, where I quickly moved from playing with dolls to incessantly reading, spending most of my time at the Kensington Branch Library. Early on I developed a penchant for books rooted in social issues, my early favorites being Karen and The Family Nobody Wanted. Shortly I moved onto Jubilee and The Diary of Anne Frank.
My dreams of justice simmered at the fantastically broadminded Camp Mikan, where I went from camper to counselor, culminating in a high point when (with the help of my strongly Brooklyn-accented singing voice), I landed the role of Adelaide in the staff production of Guys and Dolls.
Soon I was ready to change the world, starting with my protests at Tilden High and City College of New York . . .
Tilden High School. . .  until I left to pursue the dream in Berkeley, California, where I supported myself by selling candy, nuts, and ice cream in Bartons of San Francisco. Then, world weary at too tender an age, I returned to New York, married, and traded demonstrations for diapers.
While raising two daughters, I tended bar, co-authored a nonfiction book on parenting, ran a summer camp, and (in my all-time favorite job, other than writing) helped resurrect and run a community center.
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Once my girls left for college, I threw myself deeper into social service and education by working with batterers and victims of domestic violence. I’m certain my novels are imbued with all the above, as well as my journey from obsessing over bad boys to loving a good man.
HammockMany things can save your life—children who warm your heart, the love of a good man, a circle of wonderful friends, and a great sister. After a tumultuous start in life, I’m lucky enough to now have all these things. I live in Boston with my husband, where I live by these words:
“Be regular and orderly in your life, so that you may be violent and original in your work.”
—GUSTAVE FLAUBERT


So compelling, and heartbreaking ACCIDENTS OF MARRIAGE captures marriage in a honest way, the scarier side, one that is not spoken of nearly enough.   Randy Susan Meyer's creates a story that sparks emotion in the reader.  With various perspectives shared the reader gets pulled deeper into the story. How can what was once so appealing turn into something scary and life changing?  Dive into ACCIDENTS OF MARRIAGE to find out!!!  
4.5 stars 


 
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